What an 8-Hour Elopement Looks Like,
And What It Doesn’t
sam@samstarns.com @samstarns
Spoiler alert: It’s not just photos of a first look and a few portraits.
When folks hear “8-hour elopement,” I can practically see the confusion behind the screen. “Wait, what are we even doing for eight hours if we’re not having a full wedding?”
Let’s get this out of the way:
An 8-hour elopement isn’t just about filling time. It’s about allowing space; for experiences, for connection, and for the day to unfold without being rushed.
Here’s what it actually looks like – and what it doesn’t.
It’s Not: Just portraits in one location
It is: A whole damn experience
We’re not standing in one spot for 8 hours clicking away. An 8-hour elopement might include slow moments like reading letters over coffee at your cabin in Bend, Oregon… hiking to an overlook in the Redwoods… grabbing post-ceremony tacos at a food truck in Anchorage.
We build in time for things that matter to you two. Not a shot list.
It’s Not: All photos, all day
It is: A real day with a photographer who’s part guide, part documentarian, part snack-hander-outer
We’re not taking posed photos nonstop. Yes, there will be portraits and candids, but there’s also time for wandering, snack breaks, maybe a canoe ride on an alpine lake, or a chill pause to watch elk pass through a meadow (yes, that’s happened).
I’m there to document what actually happens, not manufacture a moment every 5 minutes.
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It’s Not: Just for couples who want to hike 10 miles
It is: For couples who want an intentional day, however that looks
Some couples love hiking through Oregon’s mossy trails or helicoptering out to a glacier in Alaska. Others would rather slow-sip whiskey by a fire, explore tidepools on the Southern Oregon Coast, or spend the day in a place that’s been meaningful to them for years.
It’s about doing something that feels real to you. Not chasing the Instagram version of adventure.
It’s Not: Just a ceremony + portraits
It is: Your whole day: from getting ready to golden hour, or whatever makes sense for your vibe.
Think of your 8-hour elopement like you would a traditional wedding day, just… stripped down to what actually matters. Getting ready separately or together. A first look, if you want. A ceremony that doesn’t feel rushed. A picnic lunch, a visit to a new overlook, a stargazing session. Time to just be.
I’ve photographed 8-hour elopements that started with pancakes and ended with headlamps. And they were perfect.
It’s Not: A rigid timeline
It is: A loose structure with room for the unexpected
Yes, I’ll help you create a timeline. But it’s not about forcing every moment into a slot. It’s about making sure we have breathing room to savor the day, and adapt when something magical (or wild) happens.
Because spoiler: Something always does.
What could your 8-hour elopement include?
TL;DR?
An 8-hour elopement is for couples who want space to breathe, explore, and be present, not just a quick photo op.
It’s not about filling time. It’s about creating your version of a day worth remembering.
Whether that’s in the mossy forests of Oregon, the rugged backcountry of Alaska, or a tucked-away overlook in the Pacific Northwest, you deserve a day that feels like you.
Want to see how your 8-hour elopement could look?
Reach out here to see what’s possible (and what it could feel like to have a day that’s all-in, all heart).
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