What to Pack for Your Elopement (That No One Talks About)

Sure, fresh undies and your phone charger is a given. But what about the other things that can make or break an experience? Scroll for why you’ve also gotta pack dental floss, toilet paper, and more (and it’s probably not why you think…)


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Let’s be honest. Most “what to pack for your elopement” lists out there are just Pinterest fluff. They’ll remind you to bring your rings, vow books, maybe a cute jean jacket if you’re feeling trendy. But what about the actually helpful stuff that can make or break the day?

Whether you’re hiking into the Redwoods, standing on a cliff above the Oregon Coast, or exchanging vows beside an alpine lake, there are always going to be variables. I’ve seen enough elopements to know that the best day isn’t just about the view. It’s about how supported and at ease you feel in the moment.

So here’s a list you actually need: what to pack, and what I bring to have your back.

What to Pack for Your Elopement:
The Real List

These are the not-so-obvious essentials that help you feel more grounded, more comfortable, and more present for your elopement adventure.

  • Electrolyte packets or salty snacks
    Hiking and nerves don’t mix well on an empty stomach. Bring something that fuels you and keeps your energy up.
  • Toilet paper in a ziplock
    Nature’s bathroom doesn’t come with a supply cabinet. Bring what you need, and pack it back out.
  • A towel or absorbent cloth
    Wet feet, surprise rain, morning dew. This one earns its place fast.
  • Dental floss
    Because you will eat that granola bar, and you will smile for photos.
  • Handwarmers (even in summer)
    Mornings and evenings can be colder than expected, especially in the alpine mountains.
  • Extra socks (and wool ones at that)
    Dry feet = happy mood. Wool regulates temperature and comfort the best
  • Safety pins and a mini sewing kit
    Wardrobe mishaps happen. You’ll be glad you had a backup plan.
  • A real water bottle
    Not the crinkly plastic kind. Go for something reusable and insulated.
  • Cash
    Trailhead fees, small vendors, or tipping a life-saving barista. Just in case.
  • Bug spray and sunscreen
    You’d be surprised how often these get forgotten.
  • A small speaker
    Optional but awesome if you want low music during your vows.
  • Offline maps downloaded to your phone (Google Maps does this in a flash!). Many locations don’t have good cell service

What to Pack by Season: Quick Tips

Spring:

  • Microspikes or traction cleats (for leftover snow or ice)
  • Waterproof everything, rainy “Second Winter” is Oregon‘s unofficial fifth season

Summer:

  • Electrolytes and sun protection are non-negotiable
  • Bug spray if you’re in mosquito-heavy areas (seriously)

Fall:

  • Layers, layers, layers. Temps can swing fast
  • Warm drinks in a thermos go a long way

Winter:

  • Insulated boots with solid traction
  • Packable down jacket, even if you’re “just walking” somewhere

What I Bring in My Go-Bag (So You Don’t Have To)

A big part of my job isn’t just documenting your day. It’s helping you feel good in the middle of it. That means showing up prepared for whatever nature or a dress zipper might throw at us.

I bring this go-bag to every elopement, no matter the location:

  • Mini first-aid kit (band-aids, blister pads, ibuprofen, Tylenol, Pepto-Bismol, antiseptic wipes, etc.)
  • Stain remover pen (because stuff happens)
  • Compact lint roller
  • Sewing kit and safety pins
  • Clear umbrellas
  • Extra hair ties and bobby pins
  • Scissors
  • Boob tape
  • Crochet hook (for those button loops no one can fasten solo)
  • Headlamp or flashlight
  • Mini speaker
  • Hand warmers and extra gloves
  • Travel tissues and wipes
  • Pens (you’d be surprised how often no one has one for the marriage license)
  • Reusable water bottles and granola bars
  • Bug spray and sunscreen
  • Walkie-talkies (especially useful when there’s no service)

I bring this stuff so you don’t have to overthink it. You can show up feeling taken care of, not stressed about whether you packed hand warmers or if your vows might get soggy in the rain. This isn’t just about logistics. It’s about creating space for you to fully experience your elopement without distractions. I want you warm, hydrated, and present in every moment.

Pack smart.
I’ve got the rest.

So if you’re wondering what to pack for your elopement, the answer is just the essentials, a little personal comfort, and maybe a snack or two you know you’ll want. I’ll bring the backup plan (and the boob tape).

What to pack for your elopement FAQs

Toilet paper, snacks, and backup socks. And to be honest, they often almost forget that courthouses and county clerks (where you get your marriage license) have business hours when they’re factoring in travel and picking up their marriage license.

Yes. Especially in forested areas or at elevation. Clouds don’t block UV and certainly don’t deter mosquitoes.

If you’re planning to pop champagne or eat cake after, pack a cooler, a blanket, and real glasses. The little touches make it feel special.

Want more tips or help planning your day?
Get in touch or grab my free elopement checklist to start feeling extra-prepared and extra-excited.